Ah but see that's why I've said the words so many times. I've said it so many times now that I don't actually think about it before I ask so my mind doesn't actually go down that avenue of thought at all... unless they actually do show me their panties. I don't actually expect it, but on the rare one or two instances that cute ladies I asked showed me, I nearly fell over from shock.

So I'm not exactly violating anyone's privacy or body.